I believe I have good proof that Charlotte Dillingham (3-30-1850 in Rusk County, and D: 3-17-1886 in Poolville, Texa) is my g-granmother and married JOHN WESLEY GREER. I found them buried together in Poolville. However on the Shackelford Census - 1880 - there is an Emma as wife, Mollie (2 years, my grandmothr) daughter, Charlotte Bradshaw as sister-in law, widowed, and 3 children: James A (9), Gracie (8) and Nancy (6) and cousin, Caleb Greer. I know about Caleb.
I do not understand the Charlotte Bradshaw (her age is listed as 24, which would be a little off from the 1850 of Charlotte Dillingham. Who is Emma - what was her maiden name?