It appears that you may be discussing a branch of my family tree, so allow me to weigh in here with what little I know. John Toliver and Mary Polly Dick were (probably---having trouble verifying it) the parents of John (Jack) Henry Toliver. He married Ann Elizabeth Lasater, and they had a daughter, Elizabeth, who married John Steven Haley, my great-great-grandfather. John (Jack) Henry Toliver was killed at the battle of Pea Ridge, AR, which was at that time part of the Missouri Territory. He is probably buried at the Confederate cemetery in Little Rock, AR---another bit I haven't been able to verify yet. I don't know if this helps or confuses the issue; if you have any additional info, I would love to have it.