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Cheryl, all I can say with certainty is that there is a James W. Reed and a Jennet Reed, both buried in the Mound Hill Cemetery in Medina Co. You might want to contact Beverly,the person who put the info on findagrave.com. There are pictures of the grave markers, but hard to read. All I can see on James W.'s is Died April 16, 18____, son of LD and DE, or could be LD and E. Jennet's definitely says she died March 7, 1832, and was the wife of James, and was aged 62. That would make her born about 1770, much earlier than you thought.
There is info on both people on Rootsweb's WorldConnect site in case you haven't seen that, but is even more confusing, as James and Jennet as listed there, appear to have stayed in PA.