U.S. States: North Carolina: Rutherford County
The Abraham Goode listed in the 1850 Rutherford County census is the right age to be Joseph's oldest son (74 years old, born 1775). I suspect that this is the Abraham who died in 1860.
The Abraham Goode who married Barbara Hudlow is listed in the 1850 Cherokee County, GA census with their children as being 41 years old (born 1809). He disappeared from the family between the 1850 and 1860 censuses.
My suspicion is that Abraham (born 1809) died before Abraham (born 1775) and that the 1809 Abraham is a son or nephew of the 1775 Abraham. I would appreciate any information you have that might confirm either the 1860 death of Barbara's Abraham (he could have gone home to visit or help settle an estate) or the origins of the 1809 Abraham.