U.S. States: Indiana: Fayette County
His wife, Permelia "Amelia" died 8 Jan 1836 and is buried in Union Cemetery, Lyonsville, Jennings Twp., Fayette Co., IN next to her parents, Stephen Oldham and Rebecca Potts Oldham. Stephen's father, James was in Shenandoah Co, VA abt 1776 (Fairfax Lease), but I haven't been able to find a record of their whereabouts between 1777 and 1780. In 1780 they are in Henry Co., VA, then by 1798 they are in Sevier Co., VA. Came to Indiana about 1820, settling in Jennings Twp. Fayette Co., IN.
Permelia's mother was orphaned in Botetourte Co., VA, but I haven't been able to find a marriage record for Stephen and Rebecca Oldham.
I don't have any information as far as a child of Reuben and Permelia. She doesn't seem to be with the Oldham family. The Oldham family stayed in the Fayette Co area until the 1860-1900 time frame.