Robert Bledsoe: my name is Raymond Hader, i am the great grandson of JESSE M. HADER, AND MARTHA MELVINA (CROSS)HADER. according to old letter of ELVENA (HADER) KINGERY,My great aunt and daughter of JESSE M, & MARTHA HADER. There were 3 sisters Jane Cross, Prudent Cross, and herself,one brother Jeff CROSS , two of them married Jesse M. Hader. Prudent first and had his first 3 children she died and he married her sister Martha Cross and they had 9 more children. MARTHA CROSS also had 2half sisters TILDA CROSS , AND MARRY ELLEN CROSS, Marthas mother died 9 days after she was born and her dad JACK CROSS died about 9 years later.