Elmer Family Genealogy Forum
A book that has been passed down in my family, titled Elmer-Elmore Genealogy" only lists the four sons. It indicates that Caleb served in the Continental Army which may indicate why a gap in the ages. It shows that Caleb died about 1781 in Spencertown N.Y.
A footnote in the book indicagtes that his widow (Elizabeth Doolittle Elmer) 'married Judah M. Lawrence, by whom whe had three children, Vel, Obedience and Elizabeth. She died on Dec 16, 1823'
Hope this helps.
Regards, Jim McNeill