Jennifer, i am sorry you feel that way, but if you contact anyone who does genealogy, they will tell you exactly the same thing i have told you. If you know where he is buried, you can contact the state and get a copy of the death certificate, i know that sounds morbid and probably disrespectful, but there is info on it that can probably help you in your search. they usually run around 10.00, I did e-mail my cousin Chloe, to see if the name rang a bell with her, she is in the same boat i am, she has no one else to ask, either. and i haven't heard back from her, yet. I will keep looking and let you know if and when i find anything.